lunes, 16 de febrero de 2009

First of all, I would like to apologize to all of reading this blog, because I know that I sometimes can´t explain exactly what I want to say. For me it´s a big effort to think in another language. I am concious that I translate directly from Spanish to English. Furthermore I usually write quickly, because I haven´t got enough time.

Secondly, Thanks to all people for helping to solve my mistakes, I know that it´s very dificult to correct a writing, over all because it needs time. For this I thank to you for spending your time correcting my mistakes.

To sump up, I hope you enjoy reading this lines. That´s all for now.
See you soon.

lunes, 9 de febrero de 2009

Women pay expensive the freedom

Nowdays women have got the same rights as men. It´s true that the law protects women against unfair facts, but that is not totally free. For example we can study what we want, we can decide if we want children or not, all these things are true, although we have to pay a high price for this.
If I decide to live in couple, I start to pay, because I have to fight with my boyfriend to get him to throw out the rubbish, prepare dinner or wash the dishes. Really the house belong to us, but
the main problem is the mentality of women, we are programmed to worry about all, and in the other hand men are only worried about working. Other things are secondary to them. For me it´s very difficult to close my eyes and pretend that everything is right. However my husband can see the clothes in the washing machine and he doesn´t care about it, maybe he thinks that I´ll be happy if he puts the clothes on the line, but probably he´ll forget again, just when he turns around and he sees another thing more interesting to do. Maybe I´d better not do anything and wait what happens. When he doesn´t find his t-shirts, socks, underwears,... he will maybe begin to worry about this.
Why do I say to you that women pay expensive our freedom? because we want the perfection in our life and to get it, we become superwoman. It´s completely certain, Have you ever thoughts about how many things is a woman able to control at the same time? The clothes in the washing machine, the lunch, going to the supermarket, the appoimnet in the doctor to the children, working,... and I´m sure of majority of them, doing everything perfectly, but what is the price, the healthy, because You do it with all your love at the beggining, like a robot later and finally you end up with depression and your husband asking you why are you crying, and the answer is always the same, I don´t know.
Perharps we are guilty, because we want the perfection in our life, and think if we don´t do it, anyone will do it, or maybe we can´t stand listening complains about our partner. And I ask myself, have I studied a career to wash the underwears to my husband? Why is so important for me that he approves my behaviour, I suppose that the problem is in the society and many generations are needed to pass in order to solve this situation.

viernes, 6 de febrero de 2009

Silk

A few days ago we adopted a female dog. It´s very beautiful and nice. We choosed her, because her face is the half black and white. I know she is a dog, but for me she is a member more of our family. She is small. I didn´t like at all the idea of having a dog in our house, the main reason is because we live in a flat and we haven´t got a terrace for her. But my daughter always asked for the same thing for Christmas, a dog, and eventually she convinced me. She has proved me to be very responsible.
My children called her Silk, and I must say that she has got something I had not got, and it´s that my little son dressed alone in the morning. If I wanted to arrive at school on time, I had to dress him, but now, he is waking up and he is getting dressed alone, It´s amazing, isn´t it?
I think that Silk has earnt the right to belong in our family.